Of wedding of olden tide common " 6 ceremonies " it is to point to:
One, accept is collected. Common calls " betrothal " , by intermediary factitious men and women opens talk twice, the bride's side already was made, ability accept collects the bridegroom's or husband's family (take) female ceremony;
2, ask a name. Common says " add up to character 8 " , ask female name and her birthday character 8 namely;
3, accept auspicious. Close " character 8 " after getting auspicious, by go-between answer tell the wife's family;
4, accept ask forring. Common says " pressure calm " or " ceremony leaving money " , namely accept hires gold;
5, please period. Choose of the bridegroom's or husband's family marries surely auspicious day, in order to tell the ceremony at the bride's side;
6, greet in person. Auspicious period comes, husband greets bride toward the bride's side in person. As above is bridal, differ somewhat with common ceremony, common ceremony also has because of the ground other.
In 6 ceremonies " greet in person " , it is to show husband greets a bride to the bride's side personally, certain meaning and ceremony are had in ancient time. " is ram passed? Hidden from view is general 2 years " note: "Ceremony, kiss the person that greet surely so, show so male first female also " . " is Bai Hu connected? Espouse " : "Greet in person surely award the person that peaceful why, leave nether world with this world also, be about to get its favor, show close heart also " . "Peaceful " it is the rope that hand place pulls to use when getting on a car. On ceremony, still have equestrian head for, drive annulus reachs a lot of unnecessary and overelaborate formalities that reachs Home Fu 3 weeks.
Wet common the before 5 ceremonies in 6 ceremonies, basic and as identical as Guli, only the 6th " greet in person " change however and be " greet close " , namely husband is not gone to in person marry, the woman that asks famous Wang Youfu to enrage however sits greet toward the bride's side before litter close. " of current state consuetudinary " carry: "Receive close procedures, be had by the bridegroom's or husband's family take a bridal sedan chair, there are two people to carrying what a pair of big lanterns play suona horn and play the drum a few times before the bridal sedan chair, heel of bridal sedan chair is worn 9 by the sedan, there is the bridegroom's or husband's family to be gone to please in the sedan welcome close person (go to please welcome close person, should have good reputation and blessed) , go marrying a bride to the bride's side " . Of course, among them appearance is noted deploy, because of,have Guan Min, the rich and the poor and because of the ground different.
This kind by husband " greet in person " go to the front of asking a person " greet close " the evolution of marriage common, be by numerous arrive brief a kind of innovation.
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